Finding someone to share love, life projects, and other aspects is the dream of many. But what happens when you are with someone, and even then you feel alone?

Ending a relationship can be a painful process, but experiencing loneliness with your partner is more cruel, because instead of building and growing together, they could have completely separate routes.

Here we present some signs according to Whatsappstatuslines that sadness will completely effect your healthy life, indicate that your relationship may not be as nutritious and loving as before.

• Do you really want to be with him?

Many people remain in unsatisfactory relationships, empty or not motivated only by habit , fear of loneliness or fear of social condemnation.

Paradoxically, the feeling of loneliness is increased when accompanied. Be honest with yourself and ask yourself: do you want to continue where you are? Is there a possibility of restoring that link? To resolve these issues you have to dare to face the truth, which can be painful.

"I can not live without him"

If you feel this, it may be attachment more than a healthy love. Extremes get sick of any link: if you overstrain him , if he has trouble generating your own spaces and you do not allow him or her; start to check your own insecurities .

It is likely that you need to strengthen your self-esteem to be able to live with someone from desire rather than from need.

• Do you feel love other than desire?

When passion comes into play, it is often very difficult to distinguish what really feeds a couple. If the sexual is the only true connection point, there is probably a deficit in the dialogue, joint projects, etc.

• What if it's the other way around?

There are people who, due to many years of relationship, do not decide to leave their partner; no matter how much love and desire is over.

Do not convert your courtship into friendship or brotherhood and if you are living this, it is better to end up healthy.

• Do you feel anguish or abandonment?

Try to analyze in which situations these sensations are triggered, if they are frequent or only correlate with your own moods. Many people carry family or school histories of exclusion, of not feeling understood, accompanied, etc.

And even if your partner surrenders completely, if you are in that situation it is likely that nothing will satisfy you because you have not worked on those aspects yourself.

• Do you feel good with yourself, with your work, with your choices?

In order to establish nutritional relationships, they must feed on healthy individuals. And for that, you must work on your own story. Many people believe that another will come to complete them, but that will never happen.

A couple has two individuals, two stories, that come to complement each other in a common project. This is not constituted from an addition of two solitudes but from a sum of two plenitudes.

• Have you explored your spirituality?

The best meeting is with you; and when you already know yourself in depth, you appreciate the company of others better. Try feeding your soul the way you choose: reading, meditating, taking time alone for reflection.